Online Therapy and Life Coaching for the person having an Affair.
It’s time to get help.
It’s time to figure out your next steps.
You too deserve support and a peaceful future.
Imagine being able to get a full nights rest without the internal struggle of regrets and uncertainties.
The incredible bliss of not having a headache because of endless negative thoughts - and, instead feeling a sense of peace.
Recover from an Affair
Have you ever had to put on a brave face at work while internally feeling mentally and physically exhausted?
Do you ever feel the need to retreat to a place where no one can see the true mental struggle you are feeling?
Do you obsess and over think things making it feel impossible to find some calm?
Do you feel unheard, unseen or even unloved being unable to recover from an affair?
Are you at a crossroads not knowing what to do next, feeling lost?
Get the help you need healing affair.
I am Therapist, Claudia Delgado, Affair Recovery Specialist
Infidelity is a huge, traumatic life event that requires unique knowledge and understanding.
In our work together, you will learn to…
grow from your mistakes rather than live in the past in order to recover from an affair.
identify the reasons behind many of your actions in order not to repeat the same cycle.
move through pain, shame or guilt and regain confidence in making life decisions.
Recover from an affair.
Still Unsure…
Here are Some Affair Recovery - Cheating Stories
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Affair Story - Cheating Stories
I was not doing well. I had an affair and he found out. I was so unhappy in my marriage. I just wish that things didn’t happen the way they did. My entire life fell upside down. I really cared about my lover, but I also missed my husband. I was so confused.
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Emotional Affair - Cheating Stories
I was a little embarrassed to admit that I liked someone. I couldn’t help it. It felt exciting and I felt seen. I don’t even know how it started. And for years, my husband did not pay any attention to me. I did not want to hurt my husband, and I was unhappy.
Infidelity Therapist
Infidelity can lead to pain and betrayal for all parties involved. Whether you engaged in an affair or discovered your partner’s infidelity, recovering from this form of a relationship crisis is complicated, making moving forward a complex process.
You don’t have to navigate the guilt, judgment, and misery of recovering from infidelity alone.
Infidelity therapist Claudia Delgado, LCSW of Affair Recovery Counseling, provides the skills and techniques necessary to identify the reasons for your affair. You can learn and grow from your experience and rebuild trust in yourself as you confront future challenges.
What Is Infidelity Therapy?
A 2018 General Social Survey study found that approximately 20% of married men and 13% of married women participate in extramarital sexual affairs. These incidents fracture relationships, creating distrust, jealousy, and suspicion when not addressed.
A successful relationship requires respect, trust, comfort, and security in your partner. So when the bond becomes damaged through infidelity, the journey back to a healthy relationship can be challenging.
Infidelity therapy addresses the internal and external problems that lead to cheating so that your current and future relationships don’t fall into the same cycle.
What Is an Infidelity Therapist?
Therapists are trained professionals who treat and rehabilitate people struggling with their mental health, relationship and social issues, substance abuse, grief, stress, and other concerns that negatively affect everyday life.
Many therapists specialize in treating a specific population. For example, infidelity therapists focus on affair therapy and may treat one or both partners after unfaithfulness.
At Affair Recovery Counseling, affair counseling focuses on the partner who cheated, creating a safe space to discuss the infidelity and move forward.
What Can I Expect from Infidelity Therapy?
Our infidelity therapy is an individual experience, working directly with the person who cheated. The goal of cheating therapy is to identify and address the issues from your past that you bring into your relationships, creating dysfunction and repeating the same mistakes.
Additionally, we’ll discuss your current relationship, including changes you need to make and concerns you need to address if you hope to remain in your partnership.
Infidelity therapy through Affair Recovery Counseling is available for patients in California and Florida and is conducted remotely via phone or online for your convenience.
What Is Infidelity Life Coaching?
Infidelity life coaching helps those unfaithful in their relationships to evaluate their current life and determine what they want from the future. The process allows you to envision your best life and choose the path to achieve your goals.
I’ll create a safe place for you to discuss the crossroads that your affair made and decide what you want out of your next chapter in life.
Infidelity life coaching is available nationwide and conducted remotely via phone or online for your convenience.
Why Do People Cheat?
While it’s easy to conclude that all infidelity occurs when one or both partners is unhappy in a relationship, there are many reasons a person may cheat. Common reasons for cheating include:
- Boredom
- Lack of attention
- Low self-esteem
- Opportunity
- Lack of intimacy
- Depression
- Resentment or revenge
- Mistrust
- Sex addiction
Most infidelity centers on personal gratification, experiencing a new sexual conquest, or needing an ego boost.
While men and women tend to cheat on their partners at a similar rate, their reasons for cheating differ. For example, women often cheat for emotional fulfillment. In contrast, men may cheat for sexual reasons, frustrations, or because the opportunity arises.
Emotional and Physical Cheating
While most agree that sexual activity outside of a committed relationship qualifies as cheating, defining cheating becomes more complicated when you're considering virtual sexual interactions, flirting, and intimate emotional connections.
Emotional Affairs
Social media and technology tend to facilitate infidelity, opening the door to emotional affairs for people who never intended to become unfaithful.
Emotional affairs differ from friendships and other relationships as they have more emotional intimacy than the cheater’s primary relationship. Additionally, emotional affairs typically involve secrecy, deception, and sexual chemistry, even if they never become physical.
Opportunistic Physical Cheating
Opportunistic physical cheating occurs when a person loves their partner but engages in sexual behavior with another person. A situation or opportunity may drive this type of cheating, and substance abuse often plays a role.
Opportunistic cheating isn’t driven by dissatisfaction with a current relationship but by circumstances the participant didn’t anticipate.
Emotional and Physical Cheating
An emotional and physical affair is considered to be a combined type of infidelity and has the most profound impact on the primary relationship.
The participant may or may not still be in love with their partner but has formed a physical and emotional bond with someone outside of their relationship, resulting in pain and stress for all parties involved.
What’s Different About Affair Recovery Counseling?
Most cheating therapists focus on the “wronged” party, not the unfaithful person. However, we acknowledge that cheating hurts both parties in a relationship. For example, both partners may experience anxiety, depression, and grief after disclosing or discovering an affair.
The person who cheated often believes they are unworthy of love and support. As a result, they become emotionally and physically exhausted and feel they have no one to turn to.
Affair recovery counseling isn’t about making you feel better about cheating. Instead, the focus is on the following:
- Identifying the reasons behind your actions
- Moving through feelings of pain, shame, guilt, and regret
- Growing from your mistakes
- Regaining confidence in your decisions
Our sessions allow you a safe place to express your feelings, including hurt and anger, around your relationship and your treatment after the affair’s discovery. You’ll receive compassion and understanding in our counseling sessions, not judgment.
Schedule Your Consultation
When you schedule your free consultation with Affair Recovery Counseling, we will have an initial 20-25 minute meeting to determine whether I am the right person to guide you through recovering from your affair.
Even if I’m not the best fit, I’ll connect you with an affair therapist who can help you navigate the recovery process. I lead the entire consultation, so you only need to show up open to counseling and ready to talk. By the end of the call, we can decide whether I’m the best option for your treatment.
Having an affair doesn’t mean you have to keep suffering. Schedule your free consultation today, and get the help you need to move forward.
Affair Recovery Counseling
Here’s what will happen next when you schedule.
You will click the “Schedule Free Consult” button and it will take you to my calendar so you can schedule. You will then be sent a link to your email for our appointment.
We will then meet for about 20-25 minutes so together we can explore if we are a great fit for one another.
Don’t stress because even if we are not, I am going to help you get connected to someone whom is right for what you need.
I’m going to lead us, so all you have to do is come open and ready to talk. By the end of that call, we will know whether I am the right person for you or if somebody else might be a better fit.
From there, I will help you get connected to someone else or we will get you on my schedule for an even more intensive assessment that will give us exactly the direction we need to go to get you fast relief.